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Archived questions from: 9 August, 2005 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

My fantasies have me thinking I might be a lesbian...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1009 days ago

9 August 2005 (F) - I recently started to think I might be gay- when I masturbate I always think about girls- either me and another girl or just two other girls. I've had one lesbian experience about 2 years ago but it was just a drunken laugh and I wasn't attracted to her. I've only ever dated ... (69 words)

I hate that my cousin and my best friend are dating!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1010 days ago

9 August 2005 (?) - Hi My cousin is 16 and he is going out with my 13 yr old best friend and I don't want them to be together. I don't know why but I never have wanted them to be together. What can I do? luv curly gurly ... (45 words)

Big Question No. 2 How do I meet someone who will love me for who I am?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1010 days ago

9 August 2005 (F) - I'm 24 and I've never had a boyfriend. I'm 6 stone overweight but am not unattractive and don't understand why I have such bad luck. I've tried all the diets and everything but none of it works. How do I meet a nice guy who'll love me for me? I don't know how to date!! Please- ... (65 words)

I'm back with the guy my folks hated. Do I tell them or keep it a secret?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1011 days ago

9 August 2005 (F) - I went out with this guy for about 2 years but my parents hated him for no particular reason. Anyway, they heaved a sigh of relief when I broke up with him about 6 months ago, but now we're wanting to get back together and it's so difficult because I can't tell my parents- ... (67 words)

My friend said our bond was "sick". He's 90 and I'm his carer.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1007 days ago

9 August 2005 (F) - I work as a carer for a 90 year old man in his home. We have, over time, formed a special bond and are in love. He wants to get married but I can't face telling my family as I recently confided in a friend who said the relationship was 'sick' and now refuses to speak to me. I ... (82 words)

My workmate asked me out, then dumped me for his ex. Now I feel foolish...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1011 days ago

9 August 2005 (F) - I was, until recently, going with a friend from work, against my better judgement to seeing someone I worked with. But he was very persistent, and wouldn't take no for answer, so I agreed to go out for a drink with him, and we got on really well. We began seeing each other. I... (205 words)

He tells me I'm different from other girls, but then only has time for sex with me...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1011 days ago

9 August 2005 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 5 months. I'm 23 and he's 30. But he doesn't spend time with me. I can meet him only once a week and only for having sex. When I tell him "I wanna meet you, let's go out for dinner"... he says I have no time! I really love him and I enjoy sp... (142 words)

Why does my girlfriend need drugs to feel normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1011 days ago

9 August 2005 (F) - Hi, Please will someone help me? I'm not sure why, but my girlfriend has to use to drugs to help her feel normal. This has started since she found out her ex b/f is seeing her cousin. Her ex was abusive and now she's changed, she's started using drugs and I'm scared about how... (89 words)

We fought and I moved out to give our marriage a break. Did I do the right thing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 982 days ago

9 August 2005 (F) - My marriage is in trouble and I refuse to give up but it is time to take a break? For the last two weeks my husband and I of 4 years have been fighting non stop and if we're not fighting I am getting the cold shoulder. It all started because I told him I felt like I was ... (235 words)

Don't have feelings for my boyfriend any more. Should I dump him or not?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 55 days ago

9 August 2005 (?)

- I liked this boy. He was really nice and I fanced him about 7 out of 10. He ased me out once and I said no. After that I flirted with him, and his friend told me that he was going to ask me out again, and I had to say yes. I felt guilty because this time I had actually flirted ... (184 words)

My girlfriend is being bullied at work and by her parents... She just won't stand up for herself!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1011 days ago

9 August 2005 (M)

- My relationship with my girlfriend is in so many ways perfect. But it really frustrates me that she just will not stand up for herself to anyone. She is being bullied at work, and also by her parents who seem to have done everything possible to destroy her self-con... (123 words)

Big Question No 1: What is true love?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1009 days ago

9 August 2005 (F) - Hello readers What is true love? I've been in relationships but they alway end in tears. Two of them appeared like they could last forever. Is it passion? Is it friendship? If any one knows can you let me know.... (43 words)

She's lying when she says she doesn't want me back, I'm sure of it!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1008 days ago

9 August 2005 (M) - My girlfriend and I have broken up after a year; she says she does not want anything to with me. I know she is lying and trying to be strong for the both of us because she doesn't want to hurt me or me to hurt her. She still loves me and she feels her guilt will go away if she ... (172 words)

I've been afraid to say how I feel for 4 years. If she rejects me, what happens to our friendship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1007 days ago

9 August 2005 (M) - I had a first love when I was 14 years old,(grade 9). I met her at English camp. I felt happy every time I looked at her face. At that time I did not tell her that I love her. After that we were still close friends. Now it's 4 years past. My feelings for her have not changed.... (110 words)

When my (male) friends call, he never believes that they're just friends; he accuses me of having an affair!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1010 days ago

9 August 2005 (F) - My boyfriend is very jealous! I have quite a few friends including male friends as I am a very friendly person. All my male friends are only friends, nothing more, but he can't seem to accept that; if a male friend calls me, he thinks I have an affair with him or he was my ... (143 words)

My friend is happy to kiss and hug me, but he's afraid to ruin our friendship by dating...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1011 days ago

9 August 2005 (F) - I have known this guy for 5yrs and in the last few months we have become good friends and socialise with the same people. I have recently admitted to our friends and to him that I fancy him, and had responses that he does like me to but doesn’t want to lose our good friendship. ... (197 words)

He wants me to move in with him, but I can't believe that someone like him wants to be with me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1010 days ago

9 August 2005 (F) - This may sound odd. My partner and I are getting quite serious. He has asked me to move in with him and he said he wants to spend the rest of his life with me. The only thing is, he has 3 children, the third being born only a few hours a ago. The children do not bother. I ... (180 words)

Everything in my life feels like it's going wrong and I need some advice...

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 109 days ago

9 August 2005 (F) - It seems like everything is going wrong. My cousin just killed himself. My best friend left for the Army. I have no where to stay, and I feel like I won't make it through my last year in High School. Everyone thinks I am fine because I am always acting fine. But the m... (263 words)

Missed my chance to ask her out. Now I'm really hurting inside...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1011 days ago

9 August 2005 (F) - I am in love. No matter what anyone says, I know that's what it is. She is so great, but I was too late. School ended and she's going away for college in 2 weeks. I had the whole end of the school year and the summer to do something about it, but I couldn't. I sho... (231 words)

We met at a camp and she's everything I could want. How can I prevent this from becoming a failure?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1011 days ago

9 August 2005 (M) - Hi, my name is Ken. I'm 21 year old, still in college. I'm here to seek for relationship advices hopefully will me onto the right direction. I met this girl at a diversity camp that we both attended this past weekend. When I first saw her, I was totally astounded by her... (301 words)

How to make him see that I won't fall in love all over again?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1011 days ago

9 August 2005 (F) - So I have been with my Guy for a total of six years, 3 of those years we been married. We have just fallen apart. He has always been really insecure and always has had jealous issues. (I couldn't have friends and if I did go out with friends I had a time limit and if I took ... (280 words)