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Archived questions from: 4 August, 2005 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

I'm interested in someone else, but I don't want to risk what I have with my current boyfriend...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 951 days ago

4 August 2005 (F) - I have been in a relationship with my current boyfriend now for over 5 years. We are very settled and live together and have pets. We get along well enough - the spark is definely gone and we constantly have little fights, but overall we're pretty good together. My probl... (253 words)

My husband snapped and wants to divorce, but I'm not ready for that yet!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1015 days ago

4 August 2005 (M) - I met my husband 5 five years ago over the internet. For the last 4 years we have been married and have one child together. In the past few years we have also had an almost perfect marriage up until last week. He recently moved down the street from his older borther and now he ... (158 words)

First he wants me, then he wants me to leave. It's hard to feel secure in this relationship!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1015 days ago

4 August 2005 (F) - Okay, I am confused and not sure if anyone can understand this. I love my boyfriend very much. I have had enough relationships in the past that have broken down, some of them have been abusive. I often ended up with mismatched males really but the guy I am with now is my i... (222 words)

He caught me talking to some other guy and now he won't take me back...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1016 days ago

4 August 2005 (F) - I need help. I have had a relationship with a man for 2-3 months now from out of town. He insists on complete honesty and never contacting any other men while being in a relationship with him. He has a snifer and watches closely. Well he caught me talking to some guy and ... (100 words)

My husband has never listened to or tried to meet my needs. Is it possible to save this marriage?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1016 days ago

4 August 2005 (F) - I was once head over heels in love with my husband, but 15 years and 2 kids later, no more. I had a rough time in our early years; he broke up with me multiple times and he freaked out when I got pregnant (our birth control failed). Throughout our relationship, he... (140 words)

Once he left me, all I could do was sit on the couch and cry...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1015 days ago

4 August 2005 (F) - Hello. I am desperately seeking some sort of help here. I have been with my boyfriend for 4 1/2 years now, lived together for almost 2 1/2. Recently we got into an argument and he packed some bags and just up and left me. I know that it was going to happen eventually, but he w... (109 words)

My ex-fiance says our friend is only a potential "roommate". Should I believe him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1015 days ago

4 August 2005 (F) - Me and my ex were engaged in Feburuary and called off the wedding in March. Then we broke up for good and i moved back home in June. We broke up because we just argued about little stuff too much. Ever since then, I have stayed with him a few times and we get along great. W... (306 words)

Involved with my boyfriend for a year, now I hear he has a wife!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1016 days ago

4 August 2005 (F) - I am a 32 year old lady living in South Africa. My problem is that I was involved with my boyfriend for more that a year now but we each other for more than 5 years. The problem is that yesterday one of his friends told me that he has a wife and he never told me that. I am ... (80 words)

Our sex life isn't giving me what I need! There's no thrill any more...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1014 days ago

4 August 2005 (M) - Both my wife and I are young, attractive, fit, fun and have only been married for a year, but I'm not getting what I need. Before meeting my wife I had a ridiculously active sex-life, and at the beginning of our relationship we had sex round the clock! I soon discover... (205 words)

Should I try being a secret admirer and send this girl a gift?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1016 days ago

4 August 2005 (M) - I have a problem. I like this girl at my school. Over the past first week of sumer holidays I keep thinking about talking to her and asking her out, or keeping my identity secret and sending her love letters. But unfortunatley I'm not the most confident of guys, but I would ... (96 words)

Help! Mum is so overprotective that I can't even talk to her about boys...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1014 days ago

4 August 2005 (F) - Hi! my mum is too protective! what can i do?? My name is Kelly and I am 15 years old. I have a lovely mum when it comes to most situations, but she is over protective when it comes to boys. She dreads me getting a boyfriend until I finish all of my education, which she is exp... (920 words)

We dated, but he wants to take things slowly. Is it too soon to expect him to make up his mind?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1016 days ago

4 August 2005 (F) - I went back to my country in Dec last year and dated this guy I had known from childhood. He had just come out of a relationship so we both weren't expecting anything to come out of it. I went back to the US to study and we kept commnicating via phone, email, etc and things s... (182 words)

How can I improve the relationship with my father?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1016 days ago

4 August 2005 (M) - Dear Cupid, I have a serious problem with my father. He is a cynic who believes that nothing good can happen to him or his family (including me). So whenever I am happy about something or try to do novel things, he just scorns it and expresses his cynical attitude, making... (252 words)

Used by a woman on the internet, I find it hard to trust women at all any more...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1016 days ago

4 August 2005 (M) - Dear Cupid, I had a relationship for 3 months with a girl whom I met on internet. I am 23 yrs of age and I just started chatting casually with a girl who was introduced to me by one my friends. Initially I was not very much interested in chatting but this girl started cra... (411 words)

My friends say I look like a boy, but I'm happy with the way I look!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1016 days ago

4 August 2005 (F) - I have a biggest problem in my life. I'm a pretty girl but my friends tell me that I look like a boy. So guys in university weren't interested in me because they believe that I'm a boy. Some friends told me I should change hair style from short-hair to long-hair. But I like ... (70 words)

I don't want to have to choose between my love and my parents...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1016 days ago

4 August 2005 (F) - I'm 19 years old. My problem is I'm interested in women. I'm a Lesbian. I love a girl. I love her so much and she also loves me too. We want to be together and marry. She so nice. She always takes care of me, stay with me when I'm alone. She makes me laugh and happy. I had ... (110 words)

I couldn't study and now I think I'm just stupid...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1016 days ago

4 August 2005 (M) - Last week,I had a mid-term examination. I intended to read a book very much but I couldn't do examination well. I was really stressed out about the scores. I think, I'm a stupid person. I don't want to study anymore. Wwhat should I do???... (44 words)

We broke up and he wanted to be friends, but he's not acting like much of one!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1016 days ago

4 August 2005 (F) - hello! I am having a problem with my now ex boyfriend. We were going out for 3 years and everything was great. When we broke up he said that he wanted to be friends but I told him that I wasn't sure I did. But I gave it a try anyway...dumb. When my grandpa died I went to h... (234 words)

My ex and I fell out of love, but now he wants me back! Only problem is, I'm sort of with someone.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1016 days ago

4 August 2005 (F) - I went out with a boy called James for a year (my first love), lost my virginity to him and I fell in love. We fell out of love and got on with our lives. He recently dumped his girlfriend and I got back with him for one night. He told me he missed me all this time and he still ... (254 words)

We had a fight over my friendship with an ex-boyfriend...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 58 days ago

4 August 2005 (F) - My b/f and I had a fight over me being friends with an ex. I had always been honest with him but he has accused me of lying to him about the situation. We have recently began talking again and both still have feelings for each other, but he is unsure as to whether he can ... (73 words)