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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

I love travelling and I don't want to feel like I have to ask my partner's "permission" to go!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 989 days ago

30 August 2005 (F) - I have been with my partner for a few years now. We have a great relationship even though we are very different. I have a love of travel and discovering new places. I take 3-4 vacations a year. I am financially independent and my partner and I do not live together. He does not... (315 words)

He missed me and made plans to visit... but then his email got less frequent. What does it mean?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 981 days ago

30 August 2005 (F) - This year I became involved with a guy I met online, who lives in another country. After some months of talking, he came to visit me this past summer for 2 weeks. It was a great visit, however he was a little cautious with me. We had a talk about this and cleared the air- he ... (244 words)

The online-guy won't give a name, email or picture...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 988 days ago

30 August 2005 (F) - I have a friend who has been chatting online to a guy for about 2 weeks. He won't give his e-mail, name or picture to her. What does everyone think?... (30 words)

My husband can't show any emotion...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 648 days ago

30 August 2005 (F) - My husband, who may I add is a wonderful caring man, is not interested in sex or kissing and has never masturbated or cried in his life. I feel like I am cracking up. I just want to feel something from the man I love, but it is now getting me down and I am wondering if I ever w... (94 words)

I can only feel aroused if I have an emotional or intellectual connection already...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 989 days ago

30 August 2005 (M) - Dear Cupid, I am a 25 yrs old guy and have been finding this thing hard to understand for a long time now. I only feel aroused when i am able to connect emotionally / intellectually with a girl. Just watching beautiful girls with less clothes doesn't create even the slighte... (203 words)

Still trying to move on from my ex...even 9 years later...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 166 days ago

30 August 2005 (F) - I have been married for 8 years and been with my husband for 9 years. We have 1 child. When I met my husband over 9 years ago, I was on the rebound from an ex boyfriend who was soon going to be my fiance. To make a long story short, my ex and I broke up because of the d... (672 words)

What do I say to the sexy girl at the library who keeps smiling at me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 980 days ago

30 August 2005 (?)

- I go to my local library nearly every day. I love it, but when I see this girl(17-20 years old) so she's about five years older than me. The thing about her is that she is damn sexy. She gives me this really really weird smile. She has a boyfriend but I fancy her. Sh... (96 words)

Does my stubborn streak justify his threats?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 990 days ago

30 August 2005 (F) - A woman who is a real stubborn "B", to her boyfriend, because is too stubborn to communicate in a calm fashion, or too stubborn to take his constant criticism. Does she deserve to be verbally threatened by her man? No actual physical abuse, but very verbal. Does she dese... (101 words)

I want to leave my relationship because I'm so unhappy... but I don't want my kids to hate me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 989 days ago

30 August 2005 (F) - In my previous marriage my ex-husband was very abusive (physically and emotionally). It was to a point where he got really violent where I was afraid to be under the same roof as him. So, therefore, I had to get out of the relationship and got a divorce. We were married for 1 ... (409 words)

What's the order of priority in a relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 933 days ago

30 August 2005 (F) - I need lots of input on this one, from all types. Single, married, with children, without children When responding please state that status, it may help me to understand. Here is my question. In a relationship, who comes first, the children or the spouse or your s... (97 words)

He wants a "relationship", but he hasn't told his mum, or been out in public with me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 989 days ago

30 August 2005 (F) - I've been seeing my bf for just under a 5 months now, although we have known each other a year. We met online. It started out as just casual fun, meeting for sex once a week. Eventually he told me that he wanted more, when I asked him to explain he said he wanted us to be in a ... (352 words)

My partner's mum hates me. I don't even know why!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 986 days ago

30 August 2005 (F) - I am currently 19 and my partner is 20. We have been together for 2 yrs now and are expecting our first baby. His mother has never met me or spoken to me properly but yet she hates me. At first I thought it was my appearance but I have tried changing it a little but this doe... (404 words)

He found out I lied about the number of men I've had sex with!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 986 days ago

30 August 2005 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and half. We just had a baby 2 mths ago and he recently found out that I lied about how many men I have been with in my past. He now wants nothing to do with me and we live together. How do I fix our relationship?... (57 words)

I regret cheating on my boyfriend, but I just can't say "No"...

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 28 days ago

30 August 2005 (F) - Hi, I'm 20 and in a five year relationship with the best guy in the world. But recently I have been messing around with one guy I have become very attached to. It's been happening a few months. I love my boyfriend and am very happy in my relationship; I don't want to be messing ... (174 words)

Three years ago, I broke up with her. I want to go out with her, but she won't say why she won't

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 990 days ago

30 August 2005 (M) - I broke up with my girl three years ago, because of peer presure and now I want it back. Everyone said that I could do better and said countless negative things about her. She had just moved into my town and had not really settled in, so she was different and nobody liked he... (585 words)

She might be the right girl for me, but I barely know her...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 989 days ago

30 August 2005 (M) - Hey Cupid, I'm only 16 and been in love heaps of times, but I have found the right girl (I think). I hardly know her but she is always on my mind. She is only 14. Is there anything wrong with that? I dont know what to say to her. I dont know how to approach her. I believe... (75 words)

I think I look awful because I feel so fat!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 100 days ago

30 August 2005 (F) - I have a huge problem. I had a bmi of 21.5, I am 5'10" inches tall and weighed 150 pounds up until 2 months ago. I am now 166 pounds and I am miserable. I walk around feeling ugly everyday and I have not gone home because of how awful I feel about the way I look. I do not feel... (192 words)

What can I do to get him to notice me?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

30 August 2005 (F) - I'm in love with this boy and he doesn't notice me, even though I'm very pretty and very smart. What should I do?... (23 words)

Don't know if I should stay and try to work things out with my partner... or leave and start over with a guy I'm attracted to!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 986 days ago

30 August 2005 (F) - I'm going through a divorce and now find myself in the middle. I been talking to a guy friend for a while now and I think I have feelings for him. My divorce took a pause for about 2 weeks because me and my soon to be ex were, out of nowhere, getting along like we never di... (206 words)

Since breaking up I just can't get past the hurt, because I miss him so much...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 906 days ago

30 August 2005 (F) - My boyfriend and I broke up 5 months ago. We were pretty serious and were well on the way to getting married and planning. His work was away and well...it happened that he met another woman and came home and promptly broke with me for her. He has now moved to another country to ... (395 words)

After I sent a text I regretted, I just want to say that I'm sorry...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 990 days ago

30 August 2005 (F) - I recently dated a guy who seems quite up and down in his emotions. Despite us splitting up (his choice, and quite out of the blue!) I have good reason to believe he still has feelings for me, but he won't discuss it. In my infuriation I over-texted him, getting to the stag... (164 words)